How did you end up in the Netherlands?
“After my wife and I finished graduate school, we wanted to explore the world. To experience different cultures, philosophies and ways to do science. My wife and I both did our PhD research in Utrecht. After that, I was looking for an international research group with a good reputation. That’s how I ended up joining the Reuven Agami group at the NKI.”
Have you experienced a culture clash since moving from China?
Well… I felt surprised and a bit uncomfortable to see gay people openly hugging and kissing in public. I knew the Netherlands is quite open about this, but it still surprised me to see it in front of me, happening so naturally. In China you never see this.
Another thing that really surprises me is that Dutch people never invite me to their home. I have invited them to my home and we also had dinners in a restaurant, a wedding in a park or church, but never their home. Maybe they want to be more private, I don’t know. If you travel to China, people would invite you to their homes and introduce you to their friends, relatives, their friends…”
Are Chinese people are more open in that sense?
“Yes. At work, this is totally different though.”
What is it like for you to work in the Netherlands?
“People here are very direct and open, and can have different opinions and openly discuss those. I like that. I think it is inspiring how scientific discussion here can become a hot debate. For me, this only happened in the movie, and in my imagination, haha!”
Did you manage to adapt to this new work culture?
“It took me at least 2 years to speak up more. In China, people tend to be polite and indirect in discussions. A Chinese person would say ‘maybe this is not very convincing’, where someone in The Netherlands would say ‘you’re totally wrong.’ So in the beginning, all I said was: ‘Interesting. Let me think about it.’”
Do you feel comfortable being more direct?
“Yes, it works better for me. I feel it allows for closer contact, more efficiency and a more open scientific debate. In China, there is too much bullshit. You have to mention all someone’s titles if you address him or her: professor, doctor, director… and then their name. Here I can just say: ‘Reuven, I have a question’. Or: ‘I think it is not right.’ In China it would not be polite to directly debate with a group leader or director.”